Only for me

• The correct anatomical terms for private parts are penis & testicles and vagina & vulva;

• It is important to use the correct terms so that no one ever gets confused;

• Private parts are not for sharing, touching, feeling or photographing;

• It is not ok for someone else to expose their private privates;

• It is not ok for someone to show them images of private parts on any sort of screen or device;

• That these rules apply no matter the other person's gender, age, status, profession or relationship to the child (i.e. family, friend or stranger);

• That they can say no whenever someone's touch doesn't feel right (including kissing, stroking, cuddling, snuggling, either through clothes or direct touch);

• There are different ways that their body might warn them that something doesn't feel right (butterflies in their tummy, sweaty hands, wobbly legs, racing heart etc);

• That these rules apply even when it feels like a game, or someone gives them gifts or treats;

• Abusive behavior is never a secret even when threatened;

• Safe secrets are never about their body and are not a secret forever;

• Abusive behavior is not their fault and they won't be in trouble;

• They need to tell a trustworthy adult if someone does the wrong thing to them;

• It is the responsibility of that adult, to ensure that the abuse stops and that they visit someone who can help them (the victim) feel better; and

• If that adult doesn't do these things, then they must keep on telling until they find an adult who helps.

• Includes space to record 5 adults they can trust;

Preview of book here https://youtu.be/YbPhIu_tyws